“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~Carl Jung

I was sitting in my therapist’s office when she asked me a question that made me freeze.

“Tell me about the last time something good happened in your life.”

I opened my mouth to answer, then stopped. My mind went blank. Not because nothing good had happened, but because I genuinely couldn’t remember letting myself enjoy any of it.

She waited. The silence felt heavy.

Finally, I said, “I got a promotion three months ago.”

“And how did that feel?”

“Terrifying, …